Monday, November 15, 2010

What if You could do Anything???.....

What If You Could Do Anything?

questionHere’s an interesting question: What would you choose to do for a living if you could pick anything at all? What would you do if no one knew anything about your past work history or credentials, except you?
What would you do if you could do anything?
This is a question that Gwynn posed to me last week and even now it has me thinking.
It’s difficult to answer this question when you don’t have one specific passion or that one concrete calling in life. I told him that if I could do anything at all I would love to help people declutter and organize their home, work or holiday space.
I love simplifying, decluttering and organizing, almost to the point of obsession, and I love helping people feel better by getting their lives in order.
But is that it? Is THAT what I would do?
The more I thought about it the more things popped into my head as to what I would do.
  • organize fundraisers for charity
  • become a chef
  • photography
  • write
  • run a bed and breakfast
  • run a couples resort in cottage country (this was Gwynn’s suggestion … but I liked it too)
So why choose one? Why even ponder this question at all? It’s not like this is ever going to happen anyway. I’m not going to just drop everything and start up a photography business or buy a couples resort. Truth is I don’t have the skills, know how or money to do either at the moment. But wait. Aren’t these just excuses?
The point of pondering this question is not to figure out what you should be doing right now or to live in la-la land but rather to gain some insight into what you would really rather be doing if there were no restraints at all.
Use this exercise to shift your path in a direction that may ultimately lead you to such a career, hobby or enjoyment of life. You can only jump at an opportunity if you know that it’s in fact an opportunity.

Warning!

If you play out any of these scenarios all the way to the end, be sure to spend a bit of time thinking about the other side of the coin as well. Sure running a couples resort would be awesome. People checking in for a quiet romantic weekend, they’re likely to be happy and rather quiet. There would be plenty of time for me and Gwynn to just putter, soak in the sun and meet new people.
But what about when people trash a cottage, break a propeller blade on the boat motor, or shout profanities at you when the phone lines are down and they can’t get on the Internet? Having to deal with last minute cancellations, people showing up with a pet or their kids. Would this still  be something I would do if I could do anything?
As it so happens for this example, yes. I love a good challenge when it comes to customer service. It provides a great opportunity to put this personal development stuff into practice :) On the other hand, if I was scared of confrontation or didn’t want to deal with maintenance issues etc … then heading all the way down this path in my head would save me a lot of heart ache and time.
So I pose the question to you. What would you do if there were no limits and you could do anything?

Friday, November 12, 2010

Ten Ways to be Happy

Ten Ways to be Happy

10. Get lots of sleep. There's no better way to start the day than waking up totally rejuvinated.


9. Don't stress too much over your job. Whatever happens, it's just a job.


8. Stay away from unhappy, super-emo people who refuse to be helped.


7. Never let anyone force you into doing anything that you don't want to do.


6. Shop. Buying stuff for yourself is good.


5. Eat. Screw diets (unless, of course, they are needed for health or medical reasons).


4. Always take time to do something laid back from time to time, like hanging out or strolling in a park.


3. Spend time with your good friends.


2. Spend time with your family.


1. Don't ask yourself if you're happy. You are perfectly happy as long as you don't as yourself if you are.

Some More Tips

1) Always smile even when youre sad.


2) Get rid of negative thoughts.


3) Think positive at all times.


4) Be grateful for what you have.


5) Go for a walk/other forms of exercise.


6) Talk to a good trusted friend.


7) Have a long bath with candles.


8) Listen to some good music


9) Keep yourself occupied/busy.


10) Lastly be happy with yourself. There is only ONE YOU in the entire world.

My Philosophy On Life

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My Philosophy On Life

I’m no genius but…
This is what I think is the answer to the ultimate question of “why and how did we get here”? Is there a God? What happens to us when we die?
As we all know, there are many different beliefs and supposed explanations. I’m no religious scholar, nor am I a scientist. But I am a mom with kids that ask questions.
I do believe in God. But then that would discredit all the scientific explanations of how the earth began. Well, I like so many pondered these questions and quite frankly it drove me crazy until I finally found a way to make sense of it all in my own little brain.
And here it is. When my kids have had so many questions, as kids always do, about what happens when we die I tell them this…

Life is a day, when we die its tomorrow.
We wake up with no memory of our past.
The only clue is to look up to the heavens, for there in lies our next journey.
Three little sentences that finally put my mind at ease. I then go on to explain that these three sentences are what God would be saying if trying to explain it simply to us.

Life is a day.
Think about it. God is the Alpha and Omega. Always here and always will be here. How do you wrap your head around that one? You cannot. Anyone who believes knows it is not for us to understand, but to believe. Believing something you do not understand is called faith. So, with that being said, put yourself in God’s shoes. If you were always here and always going to be here, what would the word life mean to you? Our lives in God’s terms of time might only be a nano second. This would explain as well why it has been so long since his last physical visit to earth. For someone who has always been here and who will always be here 2,009 years might only be a few hours or days.  I’m sure that if you have always been here and will always be here you will be finding ways to keep yourself busy.

When we die its tomorrow.
Our whole life is but a day in God’s terms of time.

We wake up with no memory of our past.
This sentence to me explains so much. I believe that we do wake up again. You hear too many people talk about near death experiences not to believe that. And my own father claimed to have died at the beach as a boy and to have been “hovering” over his body and watching the people trying to save his life. This tells me without a doubt that we do have spirits that live on after our bodies die. It also explains why we never hear again from the dead. How painful would it be to someone who passes away to know the pain and grief their loved ones still living on earth are feeling and not be able to communicate with them? And how would you ever be able to go on knowing what you left behind?

The only clue is to look up to the heavens, for there in lies our next journey.
This is where the scientific part comes in. Quite simply, our sun is a star. Have you looked up at the sky on a clear night and seen how many stars are up there? And when you see them all how can you not believe that there must be other situations like ours? Some people believe you die and you either go to heaven or hell. I think God said that to comfort us and not worry us. He speaks of things in the bible in terms that we can relate to and understand in our own surroundings. Like a kind of need to know basis. Again, if you were always here and always going to be here you would want to keep yourself busy. Would earth and humans really be the only things you ever created?
I always hold on to the verse of the bible that says “My house has many mansions”. For me, this might mean that we go on to one of the many other places God has created. I believe there are other places of life other than earth and that maybe this will be our next journey. This would explain why we have not been able to find or prove other life exists in the universe. We are not supposed to find it now. It may well be the next place we’re going to. I believe that our time here on earth is but a stepping stone to heaven and that we are at the beginning of our journey as we are primitive beings with so much to learn and discover. Our time on earth is but one of many classrooms and we have so much more to learn.
I believe we have been given glimpses of proof. Everyone who says they’ve had some sort of alien sighting or experience can’t be crazy, can they? I believe that what we think are aliens are really just another of God’s creations and they are at the other end of the spectrum. And I have to believe I’m not the only one that thinks this way. A lot of movies have been made about aliens and they have been portrayed to be beings of higher intelligence, awareness and have capabilities to communicate telepathically and to heal without tools. They may be closer to being a complete and true spirit and closer to heaven.
For me, as far as the theory of evolution goes I cannot buy into it because quite simply anything that evolves is no more. How can we have evolved from apes if apes are still here?
All you have to do to believe any of this is think to yourself, what would I be doing if I was God? How powerful is it to be able to think or speak something and it is? And what would you do with that power? Would you want to be all alone, forever? I don’t think so. You would share the gift of life and all the experiences and lessons it has to offer in the hope that every being would become the best they could be to live the rest of eternity in heavenly peace. So when the bible says, our God is a giving God, I believe it.
My three little sentences have brought me more comfort over the years than you can know. It has enabled me to explain my beliefs to my kids in a way that they can understand and I think it has brought them comfort as well. I encourage them to go on their way in this thing we call life and to discover their own answers, but for now at least, they can think of our loved ones as being on some great adventure with God at his side and know that someday we will all meet up again in heaven.
I’m no genius, but that’s what I think

Thursday, November 11, 2010

How to retire Succesfully???

HOW TO RETIRE SUCCESSFULLY

Today's workers must cover more of the costs themselves. But they have new tools for the job


Lately, we are working harder and longer--and surrendering more in taxes--yet are still lamenting that we'll never retire as comfortably as our parents. With fewer workers supporting a larger cohort of elderly dependents, Social Security is unsustainable, and Medicare costs are out of control. Despite a lifetime of paying for both, most of us are unlikely to receive our full share of either. Guaranteed pensions and retiree medical coverage are becoming obsolete. Personal savings are at a record low. The message is constant and comes from all corners--economists, investment advisers, politicians, and the press: ''Retirement is a luxury only the rich can afford.'' Meanwhile, the rest of us fret that we'll be spending our golden years flipping burgers at the golden arches.
But just because a guaranteed safety net no longer exists does not mean that we will free-fall into old age impoverished and infirm. A financially secure retirement is still within reach if you're willing to maximize the numerous savings and investment opportunities available, and adjust your expectations.
To be sure, today's workers must cover more of the cost of retirement themselves. But the baby-boom generation has several advantages that current retirees did not. Baby boomers have bigger incomes, greater pension entitlement, and higher net worth than their parents and grandparents did at comparable ages, according to the Employee Benefits Research Institute (EBRI) in Washington. For much of the past decade, many boomers have climbed aboard a raging bull on Wall Street, leaving many of them with far greater nest eggs than they expected. And employment rates are up for women, thus boosting their pension coverage, suggests William G. Gale in a report for the Brookings Institution.
Moreover, today's employees have multiple sources of retirement income. Individual retirement accounts (IRAs), a variety of stock-ownership programs, and insurance provide benefits unavailable to workers of yesteryear. Folks are investing smarter and earlier. Retirement planning no longer takes place in the employee cafeteria at age 64, says Jerry Potts, marketing director for MFS Funds in Boston. ''Now, companies are offering much younger employees a wide range of educational and financial-planning services.''
EMPTY PIGGY BANKS. Even though baby boomers are more knowledgeable about saving and investing and can use a wide array of vehicles to manage their assets, the personal savings rate has declined from more than 7% throughout the 1960s to just under 5% in 1996. But the savings crisis may be overstated. In a study for Merrill Lynch & Co., Stanford University economist Douglas B. Bernheim found that excluding the equity in their houses, baby boomers were saving only about one-third of what they will need in retirement. Yet when housing wealth is included, more than two-thirds of boomers likely will be able to maintain their current standard of living in retirement.
What's more, when you add in the money invested in equities, the situation seems even less dire. Since the personal savings rate measures only the share of income not spent, it does not give a completely accurate picture of Americans' financial well-being. It ignores the paper profits that employees hold in stocks and stock mutual funds and the ultimately positive effect that capital-gains buildup has had upon many people's net worth. ''You have a situation where workers are saving more than ever from their perspective, yet the savings rate is low,'' says EBRI President Dallas L. Salisbury.
Similarly, the oft-predicted collapse of Social Security is not quite as cut and dried--nor as catastrophic--as it appears. According to economic forecasts, the Social Security trust fund will be exhausted by 2029 unless benefits are reduced or taxes increased. Yet this shortfall is predicated on assumptions of slower economic growth than the U.S. has enjoyed for the past several years. In contrast, higher productivity resulting from efficient use of information technology means greater wealth, which should make funding Social Security easier.
Doomsayers contend that even an exceptionally strong economy will not be enough to offset the anticipated age wave. But in fact, the greatest challenge facing Social Security is not the number of older people but the cost and level of their medical care, says Sandra L. Reynolds, an assistant professor of gerontology at the University of South Florida in Tampa.
ADDED BENEFITS. Since few employers offer retirees medical insurance, most rely on Medicare, the taxpayer-funded insurance program for the elderly and disabled. By the time today's workers retire, the financially troubled Medicare system will look very different. Not only is the eligibility age likely to be raised to 67, but richer seniors may also ultimately pay higher premiums.
The good news is, future retirees may actually receive more benefits--such as coverage for prescription drugs, vision and hearing tests--for less money by joining one of the growing number of Medicare health maintenance organizations (HMOs). Their signing-on will also negate the expense of supplementary Medigap insurance policies, which cover most of the hefty fees Medicare won't. Enrollment will be optional, and participants maintain the right to switch back on a monthly basis into the traditional fee-for-service Medicare system if dissatisfied. Since these HMOs are still relatively new, patients may not be able to pick a doctor they like, and facilities may be limited. But as competition intensifies, Medicare HMOs will develop stronger national networks with improved coverage and service, figures Henry S. Moyer, a partner at the employee-benefits consulting firm of Hirschfeld, Stern, Moyer & Ross in New York.
With life expectancies on the rise, however, the biggest threat to retirement savings will be the cost of long-term care. Since Medicare offers only limited nursing-home coverage, more and more young employees are planning ahead and buying long-term-care insurance policies on their own or through the handful of employers--such as IBM, Alamo Car Rental, and Wells Fargo--that offer a group plan.
Until recently, these policies, which foot the bill for a variety of services ranging from home health care to nursing homes, were expensive and often underwritten by financially troubled insurers. ''Today, policies are more affordable and available from solvent companies [such as Travelers, UNUM, and John Hancock],'' says Potts of MFS. As of this year, employers and individual buyers may be able to deduct some or all of long-term-care premiums and expenses from their federal income taxes. The tax break will dramatically increase the number of companies that offer coverage, predicts William Steinberg, a consultant at Hirschfeld, Stern, Moyer & Ross. In the meantime, insurers are coming up with novel options for people who do not have access to a group long-term-care insurance plan. For example, a long-term disability policy from UNUM converts to long-term-care insurance once the policyholder enters retirement. But what makes the insurance additionally appealing is that you won't need to provide evidence of insurability, and the policy is portable if you change jobs.
OLDEN DAYS. In spite of an abundance of new employee benefits and more flexible and affordable insurance coverage, many Americans still pine for the way things used to be. But they miss the point. Even given the possibility that Social Security and Medicare benefits will be reduced and that individual contributions will be increased, the government's role in retirement is overemphasized. ''Americans fixate on Social Security's stability, and they forget that it was never intended to be the sole source of retirement income,'' says Neal E. Cutler, professor of financial gerontology at Widener University in Chester, Pa. Even so, 6 out of 10 current retirees use it as such. ''Part of the problem is that people mistakenly assume that Social Security provides an adequate retirement income,'' says EBRI's Salisbury. ''The reality is, it never did.''
Another fallacy is this: Because fewer folks have access to defined benefit plans--which guarantee a fixed annuity for life--their chances of retiring comfortably will be reduced. Yet prior to the passage of the Employee Retirement Income Security Act (ERISA) in 1974, workers who left a company before age 65--regardless of their years of service--often forfeited their pension entirely. As a result, 20 years ago only 50% of defined-benefit-plan participants actually received any money, Salisbury says. Today, thanks to reduced vesting requirements and pension portability, that number has climbed to 85%.
Even if the only retirement plan that your company offers is a defined-contribution or 401(k) plan, you may be better off than you think. Unlike traditional pensions, which pay investors a fixed return regardless of market performance, defined-contribution plans let you control the risk and reward, says Ward Armstrong, president of American Express Retirement Services in Minneapolis.
Encouraged by strong stock market performance, employees of all ages are shifting more of their retirement-plan assets into equities, says Mary Rudie Barnaby, president of the National Defined Contribution Council, an association of 401(k) plan providers. In the 401(k) plans administered by American Express, there has been a dramatic shift toward stocks: In 1987, 65% of assets were allocated to fixed income and 35% to equity. Ten years later, that ratio has been reversed. Today's longer life expectancies even challenge the wisdom of shifting all your assets into bonds near retirement. Financial advisers are recommending that 60- to 70-year-old investors allocate as much as 25% to equities, says David J. Castellani, senior vice-president at CIGNA Retirement & Investment Services in Hartford.
CATCH-UP. An extended bull market has increased assets in 401(k) plans--at a compounded annual rate of 18% over the past decade--to around $810 billion, according to Access Research Inc. in Windsor, Conn. Participation among employees who were eligible to contribute to their company's 401(k) plan rose from 64% in 1986 to 78% in 1996, Access reports. Those numbers are likely to grow if a proposal in Congress becomes law, allowing workers who take extended leave due to illness or childbirth to make catch-up contributions to their retirement plan.
Future retirees will also benefit from stock ownership incentives such as stock option and employee stock ownership plans (ESOPs). Today, there are an estimated 10,000 ESOPs, a fivefold increase in the past 20 years, reports the ESOP Assn. in Washington. ''Giving employees a few hundred shares of stock here and there over time adds up to a significant cash benefit,'' says Castellani. Just ask employees at Lowe's Cos., a large chain of home-improvement centers in North Wilkesboro, N.C. The company makes additional contributions of up to 17% of employees' gross income in Lowe's stock to their employee stock ownership accounts. Many lower-level employees--including janitors--have retired with six-figure accounts, says CEO Bob Tillman.
Indeed, preparing for a comfortable and financially secure retirement can be a full-time job. Whether you want to loll by the pool at your condo in Boca Raton, Fla., or cruise to Branson, Mo., in an RV, getting on the right roa to retirement isn't as daunting as it once appeared. With more investment options and benefits than ever befored, and a progress report just a mouse-click away,
By Kerry Capell in New York

Meaning of Success

The Real Meaning of Success

Countless people have achieved the goals they set out for themselves only to find that they feel unhappy inside more often than they thought possible. They wonder if there is supposed to be more to life than all those things, or if they just missed a secret somewhere along the line.
All over the world, and particularly in the United States, people identify the concept of success with having a lot of money, achieving fame, having a good career, finding your true love, raising a family, owning your own home, possessing all the things you ever wanted, being able to retire, and things like that. But countless people have achieved these goals only to find themselves feeling unhappy inside more often than they thought possible. They wonder if there is supposed to be more to life than all those things, or if they just missed a secret somewhere along the line.

I would begin by equating real success with undisturbed peace of mind. I would follow that up by equating true peace of mind with happiness because if you've ever been really peaceful for a significant period of time, you know how happy you feel inside when you're in that state. Nobody on earth is ever peaceful 100% of the time, but truly successful people know how to return themselves to a state of peace relatively quickly whenever they become disturbed. This ability transcends all types of possessions and achievements, and it does not depend on anything for its continuing existence.

One problem with money, fame, careers, families, and possessions in general is that it's entirely possible to lose them after you've gotten them, and losing these kinds of things after achieving them can be a very painful experience. Another problem is that it's also entirely possible to get something you've always wanted and then find out after some time passes that it really isn't doing what you thought it would do for you. But for the person who has achieved true peace of mind and knows how to return to it when disturbances occur (and that's the real key to it all), nothing on earth can take that skill away.

Western religions preach to us that the most important thing in life is having a "one on one" relationship with God, and there's something to be said for that concept because among other things, we're told that God is Peace. Jesus Christ preached, "Peace on Earth to men of good will". Albert Einstein, who was arguably the most brilliant human being ever born on Earth had a very strong belief in a peaceful God, and he also understood that his Theory of Relativity strongly implied the existence of an infinite power that exists somewhere beyond the speed of light and outside our three dimensional universe. Jesus was in a state of constant peace. He only lost it one time, and that was because the money changers in the temple of his religion were so blasted blasphemous that a bit of righteous anger was definitely appropriate. There's really nothing more offensive to God than people who break God's laws in the name of God.

Eastern religions teach that the most important thing is peace of mind. Buddhists aren't even sure that there is a God that's worth defining, but they do believe that peace of mind is a pretty good substitute definition. The Yogis say that to know God, you have to become God, and the general path leading to that goal is achieving peace of mind that cannot be disturbed. But there's a great story about a yogi who meditated for many years in a cave in order to become peaceful all the time. After he felt that he had achieved that state, he came out of his cave so that he could spread the good word. Right away he encountered a woman and he began to tell her of his experience. The woman couldn't grasp his concept right away so she said, "You seem to be very peaceful, yogi. Is that true?" Of course, he said "yes". Then she said, "Come on, yogi, are you REALLY peaceful?" He said, "I just told you that I'm peaceful." She said, "But are you really peaceful all the time?" He replied, "Yes, all the time." But she kept on. "I don't believe you, yogi, nobody is peaceful ALL the time." The yogi blurted out, "Damn it woman! How can you be so stupid? Can't you see how peaceful I am?" I got it straight from Sri Swami Satchidananda Maharaj.

So with all that said, you're really successful if:
  • You're able to have somebody else dial your phone calls for you.
  • You have somebody else drive your own car for you.
  • You don't have to do your own laundries.
  • You're completely inaccessible.
  • You have Milton Berle living inside your brain.


And that last one is true because if you can't achieve constant peace of mind, you might as well be laughing about it all the time!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

The 4 Wives.....

7 Steps of living at the speed of life

7 Steps to Living at the Speed of Life
by Jim M. Allen

Everywhere you turn today, people are in a constant rush: Hurry here! Hurry there! Free up an extra half-hour and you just might be able to squeeze one more task into your already overflowing schedule of things to do.
Unfortunately, too many of us these days mistake living fast for living well. They aren't the same things. Rather than spend your time rushing around not enjoying life, make the decision to do just the opposite. Choose to slow down.
Below I've listed 7 steps that will help you get started "gearing down" to a calmer, more enjoyable pace: your own, personal, speed of life.

1. Stop rushing

No matter how much you do or don't do, time passes by at a steady rate. Second by second, minute by minute. You can't change that. So accept it and pace yourself.

2. Stop being rushed

Of course, you'll need to spend some time telling the people around you that you're not going to rush anymore, but it's worth it. Take a stand: don't let others force you into fast forward mode.

3. Do less

It's natural for you to start rushing about when your list of activities is jam-packed. If you really want to slow down, reduce your commitments --it's okay to say "No" when people ask for your help and/or participation-- and free up some "spare" time.

4. Do nothing

Better yet, take #3 even further. Do less than less.... do nothing! Plan "nothing days". These are days when you have absolutely nothing that must be done -- days when anything you choose to do is the right thing to do.

5. Do one thing at a time

If you can't bring yourself to doing less (or nothing), then slow down by simply doing one thing at a time. You'll focus more on each task you do (and you'll probably complete it faster, too).

6. Do things now

Not everything, just the stuff that really must be done today. Pay your bills when they arrive, not the day they're due. Take out the trash when the trash is full, not just on the day the garbage truck comes by.

7. Do something for someone else

Spend an hour each week helping your favorite charity . You'll quickly see how valuable time really is and you'll feel great by focusing on helping others. _____

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

A Way Of Life

by Thought-Life Connection

Tuesday, November 2, 2010


A Way Of Life…

Think about it… What is our greatest asset if it is not our selves? That is a deep thought. It is one that we should all contemplate as making it a truth… How do I make the recognition of the greatest asset in my life being what is inside of me? Not me, but what is inside of me… How do I realize it? By living it… By recognizing, “You know what? No matter where I go, the greatest jewels that I have lie within me.”
Those jewels are a way of life… They are spiritual principles that have guided me, that have been put together by some of the greatest minds in the world, that have been accumulated, and gone further than the people who wrote them, who aren’t even alive any more. Now, can I take these truths and make them even greater? Because isn’t that what they did with their forefathers, and their forefather’s forefathers? Is it not our time to take these truths and make them greater?
The truth being: Live a way of life that is a good life, and don’t assume that you know what that is. You must learn what that is. To learn a way of life, you need a code of conduct, which is something we all should have. It should be something that every person could relay to another person, that being the basic code of conduct that they live by, why they live by it and where they got it. Every human being should have their own code of conduct.
Imagine the world we’d live in if we were truly our greatest asset because of the code of conduct that we’ve adhered to, which has created a life that we never thought was possible but seems to be getting better all the time.
Trusting in that is difficult… Trusting in that process of “I’m okay right where I’m at.” That right now I know for my life that I am happy. Otherwise, we’d all be short-changed. It must be the ability to be happy today while I build a better tomorrow. Better relationships… While I heal myself to recognize what a better relationship is so that is all that fits. Nobody else has to change, see? I’ll change. Because I have a way of life… I recognize that when I change, everyone around me changes. They may not actually change, but the way I look at them changes. For some reason, when you look at somebody differently, they act differently, they talk differently, and they feel differently about you, because you are different. That’s how we approach each situation in life.
Sometimes you need to sit back in life and wonder, “Do I have a code of conduct?” Do you have a way of life that can guide you through thick or thin? Who doesn’t need one? And if you don’t have one, look how successful you’ve been without having a code of conduct, without any order… A code of conduct creates order. It creates discipline. It creates structure. When you lose structure, order and discipline your life becomes so unmanageable and you wonder what it’s all about. Maybe that is why people take their lives, because something is missing. It has always been said that the something that is missing is a message, that everybody can have, that everybody can live by, that is understandable by every single person. The benefits start right now…
That’s what this way of life is about. That is what’s happened… This life has been accrued from the principles of the 12 Steps… It has been said that I have been able to translate these things into modern language. That it was written in a certain era, a certain time, with a different vocabulary back then, a different structure. It’s meaning is not the same. We use different words today. So, in effect, the 12 Steps had to be modernized… But who could do that? It’s got to be done collectively and that’s really how it’s been done. I don’t think I’ve put down anything more than collective information that I’ve gotten from living a way of life. But, I had to take that print of the 12 Steps and break it down and go further. Into the layers and layers and layers of it to find out, “What does it mean? What is it saying?” And that exploration changed it, but then didn’t change it… It just gave it truer meaning. And that is what I’m translating to you. That is what I’ve learned to translate, that message that people say I’m so familiar with… that message that we’re talking about that is a Way Of Life. It’s not that complicated. It has an order form, but it has to be translated. That’s the key. Everybody needs it translated because every human being – think about it – translates it to the best of their ability, not their worst.
If you want a greater life then you have to find greater information and knowledge than what you’ve got. Or you’re not living the best life that you can. Maybe it’s worth reaching out for something that can give you that, and that’s what this message does.
This message and people who carry this message… You recognize them… You can hear them, they speak to you… And that’s what we’re all learning to do. That’s what a way of life should do… It should make it so that you are understandable by everybody. If it’s a good way of life, everybody should understand it. If it’s a good way of life then it shouldn’t be that hard for people to learn. But, it had to be modernized. I’ve just been discovering this… that the modernization is coming through, in a way, through me. Not in an arrogant way, but in a hard working way… I’ve learned to translate this message and turn it into a modern form. There is a way of life for anybody to understand because I’ve relayed it in a way that anyone can understand. Most importantly, it resonates and it is something you can touch right now. This message is organic… So it’s alive… Anybody who touches it becomes the lifeline of it… That’s why it is such an amazing message and therefore, everybody can have it. No one is blocked out. No denomination…
No race, creed, color, social status, economic status – none of it – can block you from this message. Other than your pride and your ego that says, “I don’t need this.” And you don’t even know what it is.
If it is a way of life, I’d be, “Okay, I’ll check that out!” If someone is bold enough to say “It’s a Way of Life,” I’d think that all people would be saying, “Alright, let me check that out!” How many times do you hear that these writings and this message is a Way Of Life that you will listen to or read that will give you a code of conduct that makes you feel good about the world you live in, and anybody and everybody can understand it?
I don’t know… I’d jump at that personally, wouldn’t you?
Much love,
K.C.
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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Life is a Journey



Life is a Journey
Nancy Tabah Whynott © Lotusbud




Over the years, I have discovered life is a journey, a pilgrimage, a sacred adventure. Within everyone's inner solitude, there is that bright and warm hearth where the spirit dwells waiting to be roused. There are many paths to enlightenment, their teachings rich and varied offering wisdom and food for thought and everything we need for our journey to awakening lies within us. In the beginning, spirituality appears like the bud on a bloom, opening gradually, tempting us with a glimpse of its splendor and unfathomable depths. It is here we create the blueprint of our collective existence.
Each of us from time to time experience crises from different life changing events and transitions, all unpredictable moments arriving and intruding into our well groomed lives. We didn't ask for this interference and we wonder why it has arrived bringing with it havoc and confusion. BUT no matter what the source, each crisis has a common bond,a threshold, a holy summons inviting us to cross a threshold involving both a leaving behind and a stepping toward.
During these times of roadblocks, dead ends and detours, we often choose to ignore that inner calling. Transformation takes an enormous amount of trust in the voice that urges us to take note. We need to pay attention and ask ourselves, what is it we are being summoned to learn? Has the time arrived to push past our comfort zone and begin the slow process of transformation? Are we ready to accept responsibility for our life choices and embark on this soulful journey? Many of us have learned to be afraid of the feelings inside of ourselves. We tend to bury or ignore them. Perhaps even run from them pretending they don't exist. We cannot deceive ourselves! Until we claim and embrace these "unwanted" pieces of our shadow, they will continue to resurface, haunting us and making their presence known, one way or another.
The invitation to re-kindle our authentic self wears many disguises and often arrives in some of the most unexpected ways and always with a revelation. Life passages can mystify and overwhelm us, causing pain and grief. It is frightening to veer off the well-worn path, better known as our "comfort zone.?" But if we are willing to take the time to acknowledge and reflect on each passage, they can bestow wisdom and knowledge expanding our vision of our authenticity.
Celebrating, mourning or wrestling with a life passage is an extraordinary act. Slow down and be in touch with your feelings. Be kind and loving to yourself. Act from your spirit and heart and don't forget to breathe!

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Time is money????

    It is an old quote that “Time is Money” and everyone has heard this sentence. But we are not fully aware from the meaning and the importance of this sentence. Time can make money but from money no one can make time. In this modern world where life is moving so fast, there is a shortage of time. Therefore, it is necessary to know the value of time.

    Nowadays everyone especially children are wasting their time because they are not fully aware from the fact that how much important time is? They are not seeing their dark future, that’s why they are wasting time in playing games and other negative activities. It is not like that the child should be a book bug. He should also play but on time, because excess of everything is harmful.

    It is the duty of parents to remind their children about the importance of time and to remind them of the difficulties of practical life. Nowadays, children are wasting their time sitting in front of computer and playing games, in watching T.V, and in playing sports. They should concentrate on their studies; Extra-Curricular activities are good but should be limited. The children should utilize their time in positive activities, like reading Magazines, reading different books and newspaper.

    The biggest example of not properly utilizing the time is that children are wasting their time as they are spending daily 3 to 4 hours in front of computer but they even don’t know how to repair the computer. Internet is the best and easily available source of knowledge to the new generation, but instead of using it in the right manner they are using it negatively.

    Now this era is very tough and the upcoming era will be the toughest. Only those will survive who are utilizing their time in positive things. Wastage of time won’t give anything, because once time runs away, than it never returns. So it is better to save time and utilize it in bringing some new creations and innovations. Time is more expensive than money therefore its importance should be realized. A human being should be efficient enough to utilize his time in the best possible way.

Just take the example of multinational companies. Their motto is to save time because they know that saving time will be beneficial and helpful for them to make more money. Remember there is no limit of earning money. A person can earn more money than Bill Gates but to do this all you need is proper utilization of time. Time always matters in everything. Never left work on tomorrow, try to complete your work by today, because this saving of time will be obviously beneficial for you.

Keep this thing in mind that there are 24 hours in a day in which we eat, sleep, and relax and by deducting all the time from these activities, we are approximately left with only 15 hours and wasting more time than 15 hours is harmful. Those who do not respect time, time also do not respect them. Wasting of time is very harmful and consequences will be severe if we are not using the time appropriately. Wasting of time is a major cause of unemployment for future.

Students who are wasting their time are indirectly harming their own selves. Student waste their time in negative activities and in playing games which results in failing of their exams. Students should also use their time in a proper way to get their future better and brighter.

To conclude, all these points show that time has its own importance and we should not waste our time in unnecessary things, because it is better to save time before it’s too late to apologize to the life.

Monday, October 25, 2010

Secret Of Life

Life Without money